It is only the first time that you will be taken to the admin area, so you can change your log-in preference. On top of the admin screen you will see the link that says “How to get my girlfriend back”, click on that and when you get to the homepage of the site just go the link on top left of the navigation for the forum. I apologize the confusion. I’ll find a way to facilitate the registration process. Thanks Jon.

From what I remember, you guys have been broken up for three months now. So let me ask you, do you seriously think that she would still be talking smack about you if she cared so little for you? You know what they say, there’s a very thin line between love and hate. It wouldn’t be a good thing if she was chewing you out right after the break up. I mean, it’s certainly not better than her crying her eyes out for you to come back. But after three months, that’s quarter of a freaking year and you still find her talking about you.

In a weird way, your ex girlfriend is still not over you. This certainly doesn’t mean she’s ready to take you back, but it does mean she would be all over you if you could somehow channel all the emotions she has for you from hate to love. Easier said than done, right? Right, but it’s certainly better to have her still thinking about you, rather than her completely having forgotten your existence.

I still don’t like the idea of you trying to win her back, but I know I should respect your decision and this is what I can tell you about the situation. By the way buda, we have a brand new forum up and running. I know it’s a bit of a hassle, but I’d appreciate it if you could register in the forum and start posting questions to me in the “Ask Ex Back Coach” section. We’ll no longer do one-on-one help here. You find all the information you need to register in the reply below.

I just wanna ask u something.Yesterday,my ex chatted with her friend in facebook.And the conversation was, well, about me.I found out abt it accidently.It wasnt my purpose to stalk her profile.I still in NC right.

My ex says a lot of horrible things about me.Cursing me and all.She even want to say fuc# off to me if she had the chance to do so.

So coach,clearly she still have grudges upon me even after more than 3 weeks of NC.But as ur advice,I take this as pinch of salt and I am not affected at all.

What is going on with her coach?Why does she still hate me? (If that is the case) Can u enlighten me on this one behaviour coach?

Ps,I am still in NC for more than 3 weeks.Doing better.Thanks Coach.

That’s exactly what I mean. But like I said, it is still a progress so it’s a good thing nonetheless.
Talk to you soon then, take care buddy.

You mean that the unblocking is just a very minor progress is it? Not really quite a significant turn of events if that is what u means right?

And yeah,I was really having fun.Not just acting

Thanks Coach!

You would be right for continuing with your no contact approach. The Facebook unblock is just a start of things and although better than nothing, it means close to nothing in the context of getting back together one day.

I don’t want you to merely act like you are having fun, but I really want you going out there to have real fun. I’m not saying that you are putting up an act, but regardless of what the future might hold for you guys, it’s just better that you live your life fully without putting it on hold for your ex girlfriend. Anyhow, it’s good news and a good start. Keep up the good work Buda.

I forgot to tell u,my ex unblocked me on facebook a day after I uploaded a lot of photos of me going on a holiday with my friends.My friends consisted of 2 guys including me and 3 girls.

And I changed my profile picture to a picture where I was having fun with the 3 girls I mentioned.

Thanks Coach

Just want to give you an update,my ex had suddenly decided to unblock me in facebook.Out of the blue.Why does she did that coach?

Btw,its been 3 weeks since the no contact period commence.and I am still not contacting her eventhough she have unblocked me in facebook recently and I am planning to continue to do so.

Thanks Coach!