How would you like to make your ex girlfriend feel the way you feel right now? Make her desperate to get back together. For her to feel the hopelessness that time is running out on her. No, I am not talking about revenge here. I’m talking about doing to her what she is doing to you right now and thus turning the table on her. In this article, I will teach you how to get your ex girlfriend back by simply mimicking her attitude and her behavior towards you. You will see how a simple change in attitude can influence people to react to you differently and how this technique can be used to get your girlfriend back.
Romantic relationships fizzle out when the challenge, mystery, and spontaneity is no longer there. You had all those attributes when you first met your girlfriend and I’m sure you had fantastic relationship with her. A romantic relationship has to stay interesting and challenging for it to thrive and that’s why you keep working on your relationship to make it even stronger. If those things are what it takes for romantic relationships to prosper, then it’s only logical that the opposite will have an adverse effect. Case and point, your current situation and the way you are going about it to remedy it.
By now, you have mostly likely tried pleading to her to come back, called her and texted her till your fingers were sore, sent her flowers, and you probably even cried in front of her. What you’ve essentially done is to have signed your own death sentence. You have basically told her that you are an equivalent to a pebble on the beach or a rock on the ground. You are there for her to pick up, kick, or do whatever she desires and when she desires. You present zero challenge to her and you have made yourself the least interesting person in the world to her.
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To remove this stigma and to start being an interesting and a challenging individual again, you have to take control of your destiny once again. You have to let her know that you have the ability and the power to decide your own fate. That she is not the “end all be all” of your happiness. When was the last time that “playing it safe” got you anything truly valuable in life? You may feel like that you have to be nicer to her and that you couldn’t risk losing her forever, but that attitude will only result in failure. She will never respect a man that she can use as a mat and walk all over. And she will never fall in love with a defeated man, I promise you that.
Between you and your ex girlfriend, it is clear who is in charge and who has the respect of whom. You need to take the control away from her and you need to start earning her respect. And how do you do this? Just do what your ex girlfriend does to you, don’t call her, don’t answer her calls, don’t text her, and if she continues to contact you, then tell her want some space. Cut off contact with her completely and keep her guessing for some time. The essential first step to getting her back is to bring back the mystery and the challenge all over again. Regain her respect by letting her know that you have taken back control of your life. Without this first step you will get nowhere and what’s more, this alone can have your ex girlfriend running back to you in a matter of weeks.
Now that we got the very basic out of the way, next you have to learn how to seal the deal. In something as important as this, you want to fire on all cylinders and avoid any foolish mistakes. Continue reading our featured articles (Top right of our website) but most importantly don’t forget to read the conversation I had with my readers in our comment section (below the featured articles). Read the stories of men in similar situation to yours and learn from their experiences.
its been 2months and my ex has a oldman friend she is seeing she sleep with him before we was together i did all crying texting calling her she has 2 kids that i love so much so hard not to want to see them and thay love and miss me to i have been in there life for 5 years i was trying to be her friend and now she said it to hard being my friend right now so now she not leting me see the kids i want them back what con i do now to get life back
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hey my ex we been friends for almost 3yrs from a distant started hanging out fell for each other but 5 months later she quit on me and i want it all back i miss her i did so much to get her to the point she said she moving on so i stop hitting her up but how can i get us talking
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Okay, so you believe that you can get most exes to come to their senses… Let’s see if I can stump you with this one.
I met a wonderful woman [a bit younger than myself] online a little over a year ago. Unfortunately it is and has been a long-distance chat session due to proximity of jobs, etc. Over time, and in my opinion, the “sparks” appeared to be in place to move it to the next level and finally meet.
She makes many of the same standard excuses over and over again [I need money, I don't have a phone, etc...] But on the back-side of that she says she has affections and feelings [She was the 1st one to say 'LOVE']
I finally said that she was trying to manipulate and guilt me into simply ‘giving’ her physical objects, money and that I was NOT going to be a part of such activity. [One note here, I did help by sending her a little money one time with some minor expenses. [I know - rather stupid on my part.] So, I ended the relationship.
Anyway, I am in a quandary, I believe that I have true affections for her and would like to escalate, but am at a loss as to HOW to proceed given the history. Currently I am letting her cool off and stew in her own juices, so to speak.
Any ideas??