Comments on: How to Get Your Girlfriend Back – Effective Ways to Win Back Her Love http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/ Get all the tips on "How to get my girlfriend back" Mon, 16 Apr 2012 21:22:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Dan http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/comment-page-1/#comment-17984 Dan Fri, 16 Sep 2011 21:56:46 +0000 http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/?p=110#comment-17984 Eee, before you send her a letter you should have a good hard think about what you put.. because any sign of neediness will instantly start to decrease your chances of getting her even as a friend. You should tell her that breaking up was right and that you thank her for the good times shared. That you realise what went wrong and how it could have been fixed, interestingly you have a lot going on right now and maybe someday she'll find out over a coffee or a quick bite to eat. You wish her the best and hope that you can both be friends in the future. Sounds like your not looking to get back with her right? That's the idea. If you take any 'blame' in your letter, make sure it's just a light apology but not too much of one. Make your letter brief, straight to the point, honest with a tint of curiosity in there. Thats about all you need..after that you should go back to your own life and live it. I'm not saying that you should give up if she doesn't recopricate because the chances are you won't see instant effects, but you should definitely go into No Contact for your own good and maintain your positive emotions for moving on and being a confident person who believes in their abilites. Eee, before you send her a letter you should have a good hard think about what you put.. because any sign of neediness will instantly start to decrease your chances of getting her even as a friend.

You should tell her that breaking up was right and that you thank her for the good times shared. That you realise what went wrong and how it could have been fixed, interestingly you have a lot going on right now and maybe someday she’ll find out over a coffee or a quick bite to eat. You wish her the best and hope that you can both be friends in the future.

Sounds like your not looking to get back with her right? That’s the idea. If you take any ‘blame’ in your letter, make sure it’s just a light apology but not too much of one. Make your letter brief, straight to the point, honest with a tint of curiosity in there. Thats about all you need..after that you should go back to your own life and live it. I’m not saying that you should give up if she doesn’t recopricate because the chances are you won’t see instant effects, but you should definitely go into No Contact for your own good and maintain your positive emotions for moving on and being a confident person who believes in their abilites.

]]> By: eee http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/comment-page-1/#comment-17470 eee Thu, 08 Sep 2011 00:54:34 +0000 http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/?p=110#comment-17470 Hi. its been a few months and there has been no contact at all between my ex-girlfriend and I, as probably expected. I am still patient but I feel since she has not contacted me there is a window of time/opportunity were I may need to probe a little to instigate her coming back if at all. I still feel she may want to feel wanted as i did hurt her badly and I must show a tiny bit of interest in her but not come on strongly. my plan is still to send her a personal letter perhaps in 10 weeks or so but not a love letter. I plan to explain why I have not been in touch because she had met someone else and it seemed fair that i back off. I also plan to take the blame for our break up and remind her that even though it happened i was still very happy with her company and always at ease and felt at home with her and say I appreciated her company and way she treated me. i also plan to tell her that there can't always be good times and i accept this. i plan to finish the note with a simple joke about her gym workouts and then tell her it would be nice to hear from her sometime. thats my plan... something down to earth , simple but try to make her feel good about herself but I don't want to look desperate. I really think its the only course of action I can take. your advice here would be great thanks. I have left things alone for over 17wks at this stage. Hi. its been a few months and there has been no contact at all between my ex-girlfriend and I, as probably expected. I am still patient but I feel since she has not contacted me there is a window of time/opportunity were I may need to probe a little to instigate her coming back if at all. I still feel she may want to feel wanted as i did hurt her badly and I must show a tiny bit of interest in her but not come on strongly. my plan is still to send her a personal letter perhaps in 10 weeks or so but not a love letter. I plan to explain why I have not been in touch because she had met someone else and it seemed fair that i back off. I also plan to take the blame for our break up and remind her that even though it happened i was still very happy with her company and always at ease and felt at home with her and say I appreciated her company and way she treated me. i also plan to tell her that there can’t always be good times and i accept this. i plan to finish the note with a simple joke about her gym workouts and then tell her it would be nice to hear from her sometime. thats my plan… something down to earth , simple but try to make her feel good about herself but I don’t want to look desperate. I really think its the only course of action I can take. your advice here would be great thanks. I have left things alone for over 17wks at this stage.

]]> By: exbackcoach http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/comment-page-1/#comment-13237 exbackcoach Tue, 21 Jun 2011 23:09:50 +0000 http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/?p=110#comment-13237 Hey eee, Well then, things are working out, thanks in large part to your ability to keep your emotions in check. Anyhow, this is only the beginning of things and as you have said, you need a much more concrete signal that she wants you back. Keep doing what you’ve been doing so far and give her a little more time. In your situation, I just don’t think that there’s much that you will have to do but wait, she needs you in her life and she will be back to you as long as you let her do that on her own. I don’t know that it’s necessarily a good thing for you that she might come back, but it’s what you want and I think it will happen. Let her come to you, but if she reaches out to you, say she wants to have a conversation with you over a coffee or something, then you should definitely give her a chance, unless of course she sets some condition like “just as a friend” bs. Keep it up eee and let me know how things progress. Take care buddy. Hey eee,

Well then, things are working out, thanks in large part to your ability to keep your emotions in check. Anyhow, this is only the beginning of things and as you have said, you need a much more concrete signal that she wants you back. Keep doing what you’ve been doing so far and give her a little more time. In your situation, I just don’t think that there’s much that you will have to do but wait, she needs you in her life and she will be back to you as long as you let her do that on her own.

I don’t know that it’s necessarily a good thing for you that she might come back, but it’s what you want and I think it will happen. Let her come to you, but if she reaches out to you, say she wants to have a conversation with you over a coffee or something, then you should definitely give her a chance, unless of course she sets some condition like “just as a friend” bs. Keep it up eee and let me know how things progress. Take care buddy.

]]> By: eee http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/comment-page-1/#comment-13158 eee Mon, 20 Jun 2011 21:42:19 +0000 http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/?p=110#comment-13158 Hi again. as soon as I make plans to cool off trying to get my ex girl f'd back and come up with a plan to back away for few months, I get a txt of her. its unbelievable. this is the 1st time she has initiated contact with me since I've been trying to get her back since xmas. its because i have backed of i suppose and wished her all the best with her new man. it was a late txt on fri nite around 23:30 just saying hi to me and how i was doing and to enjoy the wkend, she also apologised for txting me so late. i think she was at home and did have her daughter dat wkend and she was defo just chilling dat nite in her house because having daughter means she is playing mother dat wkend , i am very sure of this. i think it is significant to txt me at all. I did not answer her txt until sunday because i did not want to be to eager and also to show her that she is not the main priority for me since she claims she is seeing someone else. i did answer her on sunday afternoon to say hi and my weekend was going well and dat i had no phone credit to txt her back until sunday. she did not reply to me which i am ok about. I just need a little bit of neutral advice here. I am very calm but quietly confident since she has contacted me for once and it is not me doing the work. i will continue to back of and see if she contacts me again. you did predict she would contact me which was a great call by you. i still need more concrete signals from her that she is intersted in me again but i think it looks good unless the txt she sent me was just a once off and random. i am weary but cool about this and am above all else very patient with her but its a good sign i think that she is possibly beginning to miss me in her life and the tide is turning in my favour a little. fingers crossed. Am i correct in your opinion to stay cool and wait this out even though she has contacted me. i think its the thing to do. thanks Hi again. as soon as I make plans to cool off trying to get my ex girl f’d back and come up with a plan to back away for few months, I get a txt of her. its unbelievable. this is the 1st time she has initiated contact with me since I’ve been trying to get her back since xmas. its because i have backed of i suppose and wished her all the best with her new man. it was a late txt on fri nite around 23:30 just saying hi to me and how i was doing and to enjoy the wkend, she also apologised for txting me so late. i think she was at home and did have her daughter dat wkend and she was defo just chilling dat nite in her house because having daughter means she is playing mother dat wkend , i am very sure of this. i think it is significant to txt me at all. I did not answer her txt until sunday because i did not want to be to eager and also to show her that she is not the main priority for me since she claims she is seeing someone else. i did answer her on sunday afternoon to say hi and my weekend was going well and dat i had no phone credit to txt her back until sunday. she did not reply to me which i am ok about. I just need a little bit of neutral advice here. I am very calm but quietly confident since she has contacted me for once and it is not me doing the work. i will continue to back of and see if she contacts me again. you did predict she would contact me which was a great call by you. i still need more concrete signals from her that she is intersted in me again but i think it looks good unless the txt she sent me was just a once off and random. i am weary but cool about this and am above all else very patient with her but its a good sign i think that she is possibly beginning to miss me in her life and the tide is turning in my favour a little. fingers crossed. Am i correct in your opinion to stay cool and wait this out even though she has contacted me. i think its the thing to do. thanks

]]> By: eee http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/comment-page-1/#comment-12875 eee Thu, 16 Jun 2011 12:46:02 +0000 http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/?p=110#comment-12875 thanks. I certainly will get back to you and let you know how things go. backing off is key and a fresh start with the personal letter seems to be the way to go in a few months if i still want her back. just need to get in contact again with her without coming on to her. this girl needs time and I need to take things very slowly. you have been so helpful regardless of the outcome. eee thanks. I certainly will get back to you and let you know how things go. backing off is key and a fresh start with the personal letter seems to be the way to go in a few months if i still want her back. just need to get in contact again with her without coming on to her. this girl needs time and I need to take things very slowly. you have been so helpful regardless of the outcome. eee

]]> By: exbackcoach http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/comment-page-1/#comment-12861 exbackcoach Thu, 16 Jun 2011 05:53:17 +0000 http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/?p=110#comment-12861 Hello eee, I’m glad I was able to be some sort of help and I’m happy to see that you are handling your situation well. I understand that some things you just have to see through to have the peace of mind. I’m not completely against you going after your ex. After all, it’s a learning experience regardless of the outcome and if you know what you are getting into, then you can only gain from it. Good luck and come back to let us know how things went buddy. Bye for now. Hello eee,

I’m glad I was able to be some sort of help and I’m happy to see that you are handling your situation well. I understand that some things you just have to see through to have the peace of mind. I’m not completely against you going after your ex. After all, it’s a learning experience regardless of the outcome and if you know what you are getting into, then you can only gain from it. Good luck and come back to let us know how things went buddy. Bye for now.

]]> By: eee http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/comment-page-1/#comment-12804 eee Wed, 15 Jun 2011 13:06:11 +0000 http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/?p=110#comment-12804 thanks again for your reply and support. i needed this help and it has definitely given me a better perspective on the situ and structured plan. backing away for some time is the right thing to do and then see. At the moment i am a bit to eager and easy so lets turn the tables and be absent for awhile. I know much patience is required. eee thanks again for your reply and support. i needed this help and it has definitely given me a better perspective on the situ and structured plan. backing away for some time is the right thing to do and then see. At the moment i am a bit to eager and easy so lets turn the tables and be absent for awhile. I know much patience is required. eee

]]> By: exbackcoach http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/comment-page-1/#comment-12774 exbackcoach Wed, 15 Jun 2011 00:56:16 +0000 http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/?p=110#comment-12774 Hello eee, I’m sorry to hear that your message got lost, it’s never happened before, but I’ll look into it and make sure it doesn’t happen again. Well anyways, I got to learn a lot more about your situation with your latest message and it seems like you might have said some things that you weren’t so sure, because your emotions were running high. In any event, I understand you feel very strongly about winning your ex girlfriend back and I respect that. You have a plan now and you should go ahead with it to find out for yourself what the future holds for you. Feel free to come back anytime you like to discuss your situation. I’ll be rooting for you E, so good luck and take good care of yourself. Bye now. Hello eee,

I’m sorry to hear that your message got lost, it’s never happened before, but I’ll look into it and make sure it doesn’t happen again. Well anyways, I got to learn a lot more about your situation with your latest message and it seems like you might have said some things that you weren’t so sure, because your emotions were running high. In any event, I understand you feel very strongly about winning your ex girlfriend back and I respect that. You have a plan now and you should go ahead with it to find out for yourself what the future holds for you.

Feel free to come back anytime you like to discuss your situation. I’ll be rooting for you E, so good luck and take good care of yourself. Bye now.

]]> By: eee http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/comment-page-1/#comment-12754 eee Tue, 14 Jun 2011 18:54:48 +0000 http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/?p=110#comment-12754 Hi again, just to clarify one thing with this girl. I realise alot of information has been given by me recently. I left this girl because I suspected she was taking drugs secretly and had a drug problem. this girl is a serious diabetic and can be ill suddenly, i may have got my wires crossed, i admit this and she knows i admit this. she believed I left her because I could not handle her illness. we both know what each other thinks about what happened. I am glad she knows now why I left her, although she is not impressed with this. i have maintained the truth since we got back in contact around xmas. this is all i have to say about things for the moment, thanks Hi again, just to clarify one thing with this girl. I realise alot of information has been given by me recently. I left this girl because I suspected she was taking drugs secretly and had a drug problem. this girl is a serious diabetic and can be ill suddenly, i may have got my wires crossed, i admit this and she knows i admit this. she believed I left her because I could not handle her illness. we both know what each other thinks about what happened. I am glad she knows now why I left her, although she is not impressed with this. i have maintained the truth since we got back in contact around xmas. this is all i have to say about things for the moment, thanks

]]> By: eee http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/get-girlfriend-back/110/comment-page-1/#comment-12751 eee Tue, 14 Jun 2011 18:00:28 +0000 http://howtoget-mygirlfriendback.com/?p=110#comment-12751 thank you for your reply again. your opinion is very helpful and I do appreciate your time and effort. I sent a message similar to this earlier but it seems to be lost en route to you. My plan is to sit back and wait now, stay calm and get a clear head, i cannot allow my emotions to rule my thinking. I have already made silly mistakes so far and I suppose many men in my situ have done the same. I really have researched how to win this girl back and I now have a plan. I believe this girl needs security and I must prove myself reliable to her. I believe she thinks i am not there for the long haul, that i only enjoy her company when things are going well but at the drop of a hat could leave her. I am realistic about overseas but I believe let nature take its course here. she feels I left her cause of her illness and thinks I can't handle her luggage. I plan to write her a hand written letter if she does not contact me over the next say 4 or 5 months. i will write the letter from my country and post it. I intend to tap into her emotions with it. It will be short, honest, warm and positive but i won't make it seem sleezy to get her back. I will take responsibility for what went wrong. she did leave me a touching note last yr which i kept and read and it does give me a great lift to think she thought enough of me to do this. i may or may not mention this in my letter. i intend to leave her the option to contact me anytime it suits her. I am here to win her back even if it takes the guts of another yr, perhaps another woman will come along in the mean time, who knows but this girl and I were very suited, many people told us this. If there is success in the future i will deal with the drugs issue if and when we connect again and things are going well. we always had a brilliant understanding , that was our strength. thanks again, I hope this message gets through this time. eee thank you for your reply again. your opinion is very helpful and I do appreciate your time and effort. I sent a message similar to this earlier but it seems to be lost en route to you. My plan is to sit back and wait now, stay calm and get a clear head, i cannot allow my emotions to rule my thinking. I have already made silly mistakes so far and I suppose many men in my situ have done the same. I really have researched how to win this girl back and I now have a plan. I believe this girl needs security and I must prove myself reliable to her. I believe she thinks i am not there for the long haul, that i only enjoy her company when things are going well but at the drop of a hat could leave her. I am realistic about overseas but I believe let nature take its course here. she feels I left her cause of her illness and thinks I can’t handle her luggage. I plan to write her a hand written letter if she does not contact me over the next say 4 or 5 months. i will write the letter from my country and post it. I intend to tap into her emotions with it. It will be short, honest, warm and positive but i won’t make it seem sleezy to get her back. I will take responsibility for what went wrong. she did leave me a touching note last yr which i kept and read and it does give me a great lift to think she thought enough of me to do this. i may or may not mention this in my letter. i intend to leave her the option to contact me anytime it suits her. I am here to win her back even if it takes the guts of another yr, perhaps another woman will come along in the mean time, who knows but this girl and I were very suited, many people told us this. If there is success in the future i will deal with the drugs issue if and when we connect again and things are going well. we always had a brilliant understanding , that was our strength. thanks again, I hope this message gets through this time. eee

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