If you ask your friends on the best way to get your girlfriend back, the most popular answer will be making her jealous. The problem is that it fails most of the times, generally not because of the method itself but because how it’s implemented. Depending on how you use it, jealousy could truly be the best way to get your girlfriend back but it could also backfire on you and you’ll end up completely alienating her. Without further ado, let’s examine this more closely.
First off, if you are out to get revenge on your ex girlfriend by dating another girl, you are completely wasting your time. Your ex girlfriend will smell your cheesy plan from a mile away. The key to using jealousy to get your ex back is in the subtleness. What you want is to do as little as possible and once your ex gets the hint, you want her to take it to the next level with her imagination.
Showing up at places with your new date where you know you will bump into your ex is not smart. By doing so, your ex girlfriend will think you are a desperate loser or even worse, she may think the love you two have shared meant very little or nothing to you. It’s far more powerful for your ex girlfriend to hear from someone that you are dating someone new rather than seeing it with her own eyes.
If your ex sees you with someone else, it will have a big impact on her but it will be momentary. If you let her imagine about your new girl, then she will ponder about it until she confirms the news with you or sees your new girl with her own eyes. The key is making her constantly think about you and she will drive herself crazy imagining how easily she was replaced.
At this point you may be asking, “Do I really date someone or do I just spread the news?” Personally, I would much rather you just spread the news. It’s hardly necessary to involve an unsuspecting casualty into this, because I don’t think it’s fair to hurt someone for your own gain. Besides, the whole point of this is leaving things mostly to your ex girlfriend’s imagination and so the real girl will not help much anyways. So make sure the news is leaked and don’t involve a real person in the plan.
After some time, your ex girlfriend will call you and she will either make straight forward inquiries or she’ll try to get you to say what she wants to know. So don’t answer her call on the first day and don’t worry because she will call you again the next day. If she does not call you back, all you have to do is call her back yourself and just ask her why she had called.
You want to say very little about this “new girlfriend” and please don’t confirm or deny anything. Ambiguity is the key for the first few days and the plan is to get her to interrogate your for days on. People like to feel appreciated and when an ex lover hardly has any trouble moving on without them, it bothers them a lot. This is your opening, this is your second chance, and what you make of it is totally up to you from this point on.
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