So, how do you get your ex girlfriend back when she has a new boyfriend? This really is the million dollar question, but don’t worry, I won’t charge you a million for the answer. The reason for the free advice is this, you hold all the cards and all I could do is to help you pick the right cards. Every relationship is unique and therefore it should be treated as such, there isn’t such thing as the universal method to winning an ex girlfriend back.
Before we can discuss the strategies to win back your girl, you should ask yourself this question. Is my ex girlfriend worth getting back? After a breakup and especially if you have been dumped, it’s impossible to have any sort of rational thoughts. I won’t force this on you too much, but please, do take a second and think if she really is worth all your effort and love in getting her back.
If you are still with me, let us continue discussing how to get your girlfriend back. Here’s the good news, your ex girlfriend’s first boyfriend after the breakup is most likely a rebound boyfriend. But here’s the bad news, until this little flame of theirs burns out on its own, there’s really nothing you can do to break them up.
The first step is the most difficult part of it all, because all you can do is to wait it out. I know it kills you inside knowing that you girlfriend is with some other guy, but you have to let her have this mini fling of hers. In the mean time, don’t make the mistake of contacting her in any way. That includes no text, e-mails, or letters.
If you stop calling though, she may call you instead and you may be tempted to sway her back. But I assure you that this is not the right time to make your move. If she does call you as a direct result of you ceasing contact, then she’s not calling you because she wants you back. She’s calling you out of her own insecurity and that’s because she suddenly realizes that you have moved on from the breakup. We know this isn’t true, but she will have no clue about this.
She realizes that she’s in a relationship that will not last, but she still felt comforted knowing that you would come back to her on a dime if she had demanded, but that was then and now she realizes that you will not be there for her anymore. At this stage, even if you could get her back, you should know that she will stick around for only as long as it takes to get her self esteem back.
After about a month or two, she will either breakup with the new boyfriend or trouble will start brewing in paradise. Women are most vulnerable right after breaking up with a rebound boyfriend. It’s ironic because rebound boyfriends are supposed to prevent this, but involving yourself in a meaningless relationship will do that to you.
This is when you make your entry and no, you do not go after her right away. You are there to lend her an ear and to be a friend to her. What you do from this point on is up to you and I have no answer for that. However, I will tell you to take things gradually if you want her back and want her back for good this time.
This is one way of getting your girlfriend back when she has a new boyfriend, but if you feel that your situation requires a more thorough planning, I suggest you read the next page. Click Here to continue.