Back when I was a senior in high school, I got dumped by my girlfriend (of then) that I was madly in love with and I remember thinking all day long of how I might make her miss me. I was still a young kid and I had no idea how I would make my ex girlfriend want me back. I got her back eventually, but it wasn’t without foolish mistakes. I did however end up learning a lot about relationships during that winter.
You might not think so, but what I had learned back then as a young kid about relationships, still applies to my relationship to my girlfriend of today. I’m going to share with you some of the tactics that had worked liked magic back then, because the principal of its workings is the same today and I know for a fact it still works like magic today.
First things first, if you want to make your ex girlfriend want you back, then you have to be willing to play some mind games. You probably tried begging your girl to come back and you might have even shown your tears in front of her. So did she come back? Of course not, because otherwise you wouldn’t be here. If begging and pleading doesn’t work (it never does), if honesty fails, and if she rejects your love no matter how truthful it may be, then it only makes sense to change your game up.
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The key here is to turn the tables on her. Take this for example. Unless you are the unluckiest individual in the world, we all had at least one girl that had a crush on us. Remembering back, she wasn’t so interesting and she didn’t really appeal to you because there really was no mystery behind her motives. So chances are you most likely snubbed her and moved on to a more appealing challenge. But then a few months later you find her going out with some other guy and all of a sudden you keep thinking about this girl. Initially her full-on crush on you was a big turnoff, but her seemingly sudden change of heart takes you by surprise and she for the first time seems interesting to you.
This is what you have to do to your ex girlfriend. You’ve been calling her, crying to her, and pleading to her to come back. It is time to let her know that you are no longer interested and that you are aiming for a better catch. Think how a real hot chick behaves at a party. She knows she doesn’t have to be dressed half naked to attract men, she knows she doesn’t have to move an inch to find men (they’ll come for her), and she knows she can take any guy home from the party if she chooses to. In another words, she plays it cool. She makes the most out of her hot looks by doing nothing. If she acts like an average girl, then her stock goes down by that much and she loses her leverage.
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