Are you a reliable person? How about a reliable boyfriend? I’ve watched one too many friends fall in the same trap they set themselves in again and again. Want to take a guess what that trap is? The answer is that men make too many promises they can’t keep.
Men by nature, tend to take action first and think later. This is especially true when a relationship has aged somewhat, the male counterpart gives reactive answers to questions and starts to build a routine with his girlfriend.
At this point in a relationship, men know when they could say “no” and when they have to say “yes”, even though they don’t plan on keeping the promise. Men know one broken promise won’t get them booted, but what they don’t realize is that the stress and hurt from constant lies can become too much to bear at some point.
You see, your friends might tell you that you are dependable and from their perspective, they are probably right. But a good friend doesn’t automatically translate to good boyfriend and the reason is that we treat everyone differently. When was the last time you spoke to your boss like you speak to your mother? We are not as consistent as we’d like to believe we are and time seems to have many negative effects on men when it comes to their sensitivity to their girlfriends.
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How well do you keep your promises? Rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10 and 10 being the best, you probably have to learn to own up to your words if you rate below 7. Be honest with yourself and try to think in your ex girlfriend’s shoes. If you rate below 5, there’s a good likelihood that your breakup might have had a whole lot to do with your undependability.
If you realize that you’ve been a pretty good liar to your ex girlfriend, then don’t just try to find a way to sugarcoat things and talk your way into getting her back. This time, try to understand why you’ve made those empty promises and how you might avoid making the same mistakes again. Sincerity could reach the farthest corner of a heart and if you wholeheartedly try to understand your shortcomings, I assure you, your ex girlfriend will know.
Keeping promises, it’s truly the key to win your girlfriend back.
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