Sometimes a girl will breakup with you and act as if she still has feelings for you. It will be as though she can’t live without you, but then she can’t live with you either. You are put in an impossible situation when this happens and you can easily be toyed around if you are not careful. Let’s give this situation a closer look.
If you get dumped by your girlfriend, it’s only natural that you’d want her back as you would still be in love with her. Things become unnecessarily complicated when you ex girlfriend tells you that she misses you or that she still loves you, but that she can’t really take you back.
You can’t let her have it both ways, she wants someone she can depend on, you, but she’s not willing to take the responsibility of being in a relationship. That’s selfish, she should either let you move on or heal from the breakup. Your ex girlfriend might not be doing this to purposely hurt you, but that still does not make it any less selfish.
When this happens, you have to understand that you hold all the cards and that she’s the one without any options. She may have dumped you, but apparently she can’t really let go of you. You have to confront her and let her know that she can’t be a half-way girlfriend. You should also consider the fact that she may not even deserve you after all this, but this is something that will differ case by case.
If you still want her back anyways, but you are struggling because she won’t commit to anything, then you have to put her on the spot. If you continue to let her lean on you for support without her reciprocating, then she will eventually leave you once she realizes that you will be there for her no matter what. You don’t love someone hoping for something in return, but someone who is not willing to chance it for love does not deserve to be loved either.
Remember, she still needs you and she may even love you still. You know which is her and you just have to be honest with yourself when answering that question. If she’s holding on to you because she needs you to support her through this breakup until she regains all her self-esteem, don’t hesitate to give her a boot. If you know that she still loves you but you know something is holding her back, maybe some uncertainty or a problem in her life is preventing her from committing to you, then you have to let her know that you will always be there for her no matter what she’s going through.
Whatever you do, you have to make her come to a decision. Whether it be her needs or her love that’s making her stick around, she’ll end up hurting you real badly if you don’t force her to make a choice soon. We all have to live by the consequences of our choices and those who don’t have the courage to accept the risks that come with any meaningful decision, do not deserve the spoils of the brave and the responsible.
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