When it comes to break ups, there are times when you have accept it and move on and there are times when you have to do everything you can to get your ex back. In most situations, I’m for the latter and I don’t believe in giving up on someone you love. But there are some things you should consider before you spend the time and the energy that goes into rekindling a romance with an ex girlfriend.
The first thing you should understand is that the rush of emotions you experience after a break up don’t last long. Your heart has just been broken and your mind is too busy reacting to all sorts sickening emotions that have engulfed you. This is hardly the time to make important decisions as you may interpret your situation differently than you would under normal circumstances.
Take a break from romance and learn to feel comfortable being single again. For one thing, even if your intentions are to get your ex girlfriend back, it wouldn’t be a good idea to go after your ex girlfriend right after the breakup. So whatever you may decide to do in a few weeks, it’s a good idea to stay away from your ex girlfriend and just calm your emotions as time passes.
While you are taking a break, think back to the time when you were still together with your ex girlfriend and just ask yourself if you were truly happy. I’ve had friends who would complain all day, every day of how unhappy they were with their girlfriends and one day when their girlfriends would leave them, then all of a sudden they don’t understand how their perfect relationship could have been ruined. Do you see what I’m trying to tell you?
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Of course no relationship is perfect and perhaps relationships are always work in progress. But clearly you should be able to differentiate between happiness and unhappiness. You are reading this article because in one corner of your mind you are still wanting to get back together with your ex girlfriend. Do you want her back because you still love her? Or are you perhaps just reacting to the break up? Even if you still love her, do you think the two of you can be happy together again?
Remember, the break up happened for a reason and the underlying problems that caused the break up are still there. The questions I’ve asked here are legitimate questions that you should ask yourself and should have answers for before you set off to getting your girl back.
Quite simply, ask these questions to yourself. Were you happy with her? Was she happy with you? Can you make her happy if you get back with her? And finally, will you be happy to be with her again? Go for her only if all your answers are “yes” to the four questions. If you’ve answered at least one question with a “no”, I would sincerely advice you to move on with your life.
If you are still certain that you want her back even after reading this, then perhaps you must give it one last worthy shot at winning her back before the towels are thrown in the ring. I suggest you start with some professionally written materials that will guide you to winning back your ex girlfriend. I recommend the “Ex Recovery System”. This guide will teach you how to get your girlfriend back and as well as how to deal with her once you have her back.
The great thing about this book is that it is available for instant download and it can be returned for a full refund within 60 days of purchase. I believe what the author of the book is trying to say is, “You either get her back in 60 days or you don’t have to pay me a dime”. So far though, not a single one of my readers who have purchased this system from my recommendation have returned a single one of them. That is another reason why I strongly recommend them. In closing, here is the link again, the “Ex Recovery System”. Well, good luck and I hope she’ll be back by your side very soon.
HI THis os Claude.IS THERE ANY WAY I CAN DISCREETLY HAVE A FEMALE FRIEND TO TELL MY FOLKS THAT SHE IS 100% OVER HER EX. For the past while i have been exchanging clls and texts with a pretty female coworker at my previous bank job. I havr recently switcched branches. We are technically “friends” but with some flirting going on. I have my own apartment in manhattan but one dy while my folks were visiting last week my dad picked my cell phone and it was my friend’s ex . I had called my female friend and her ex picked up. THey broke up 3 years ago but is still close with her family. MY friend explaind that her ex is still close and visits her family an dis the jeoulous type. He obiviously was upset that he heard a man’s voice on the line. SHE asssures me that the relationship is over. My folks are old school and immediately implored me to stop speaking to this girl. I do hav feelings for her and was loSHoulding forward to introducingher to my family. MY gut feeling is that her EX was just blowing off some steam. SHE has been over her EX for AWHILE HOW can i encourage her to tell my folks that she is over her EX? ? DO U have any suggestions. I just felt her introduction to my family got off on a wrong foot. PLEASE RESPOND THANKS CLAUDE.
Hello claudejose,
Parents know when their children lie claude, sometimes you may get away with a lie or two, but in reality that’s your parents looking the other way for you. I think it would be much better to explain to your parents that people do things different in this day and age. You can’t expect a 21st century man to live like a 19th century peasant, right?
I understand that it’s not easy to change the minds of old school conservative parents, but you don’t really have to change their philosophy, but they just have to understand that different isn’t necessarily wrong. Easy answers to difficult problems usually mean they are a patchwork job.
Her introduction to your family did get off on the wrong foot, so don’t make it any worse by adding deception to the situation. Talk to them cj, they are the people that love you the most in this universe, how much worse can things get by telling them the truth?